Remember the post called 'Address Book Found' Well, it was never 'lost'. Vicki had taken it for addresses to invite people to my birthday party. She was amazed that I was looking for it the day after she took it. She never realized that I use it almost daily!
See, how our habits change as we grow older? She NEVER looks at her address book daily. OH WELL!
Saturday, August 8, 2009
GERALD KING'S OBITUARY
Gerald Elvis King 10/22/36-08/02/09 A graveside Funeral Service for Gerald Elvis King, 72, of Oklahoma City, Oklahoma was held in the Oak Park cemetery, Chandler, Oklahoma @2:00 Saturday, August 08, 2009. Mr. King passed away Sunday morning, August 02, 2009 at the VA Hospital in Oklahoma City, following a bout with cancer. Gerald was born on 10/22/36 at Chandler, Lincoln County, Oklahoma, to Herman Elvis & Fannie Lois (Taylor) King. After graduation from Farmington High School, Farmington, N.M. in 1955, he attended the University of Oklahoma for two years. He returned to Farmington, New Mexico and was employed by El Paso Natural Gas Company until he enlisted into The United States Army in 1959. He was transferred to a NIKE HERCULES MISSAL RANGE in Gary, Indiana. July 6, 1960, he married Frances Stallman, formerly of Reliance, South Dakota & Farmington, New Mexico @his parents home in Seminole, Oklahoma. Gerald & Fran were the parents of one child, Vicki Lyn King. Gerald was honorably discharged from the Army in 1962, re-locating to Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. He & Fran divorced in 1977. They remained friends throughout Gerald's life. She became his caregiver during the last three years of his life. Gerald worked on cross country pipeline construction from 1965 thru 1972, returned to OKC to open & operate a Skelly Service Station on East Reno until 1978. At this time he became a Real Estate Broker, owned & operated KING/MIZE Realtors until his retirement in 1997. After retirement, Gerald dabbled in antique sales, and classic automobiles. Both were a passion of his most of his adult life. Grateful for sharing his life are his daughter, Vicki King Martin, and his ex-wife Fran King. He is preceded in death by his Father, Herman Elvis King, His Mother, Fannie Lois King, & one sister; Mary Louise Kiker. He is survived by his daughter Vicki & her husband, John Martin. Three granddaughters; Brittany Nicole Martin, (Jeff Wells); Lauren Taylor Martin; & Rileigh Shea Martin; One great granddaughter, Sara Presley Wells, all of the Oklahoma City area. He is also survived by one sister; Janice Carol King Holland of Chandler, Oklahoma; and his ex-wife, Fran King of Newcastle, Oklahoma. |
Sunday, August 2, 2009
GERALD ELVIS KING 10/22/1936 - 08/02/2009
Gerald passed away @1:06 this morning while Vicki & I were on the road to the hospital. I saw him at seven, but couldn't wake him for conversation. He would respond to my voice, but didn't speak.
He had a painless, alert last week of his life. He looked better than I had seen him look in several months, and was in very good spirits.......so good, in fact, Vicki & I were concerned he did not understand he was terminal...... :-) I called the hospital to make sure the doctors had explained everything to him.......they called back & said he understood everything. So, I am grateful for his pain free last week and his frame of mind, and sharing his sense of humor each day. I pray he was welcomed into Heaven by his family.
He had a painless, alert last week of his life. He looked better than I had seen him look in several months, and was in very good spirits.......so good, in fact, Vicki & I were concerned he did not understand he was terminal...... :-) I called the hospital to make sure the doctors had explained everything to him.......they called back & said he understood everything. So, I am grateful for his pain free last week and his frame of mind, and sharing his sense of humor each day. I pray he was welcomed into Heaven by his family.
Thursday, July 30, 2009
THE BIG SEVENTY HAS COME & GONE
I am officially seventy years old now, but don't feel much older than when I was fifty. True story. I see some differences, however, in my mind, it is about the same. I am very greatfull for that fact!
My darling daughter just absolutely outdone herself, pulling off a Huge Surprise Birthday Party for me! It was an absolute surprise, and I bawled out loud when I realized what was going on. I was in 'total shock'!
A week or so earlier, my sister Sandy called & said 'I am thinking about coming to OKC, so we can celebrate our birthday's together'...I'm thinking it is a great idea....'come on over, it will be nice to spend time together'. (I have four sisters..we all have birthday's in July, except for one. Karel is 7/23, Sandy is 7/24, I am 7/27, & Barbara is 7/29. Pegge is in January.) So, Sandy arrives on Thursday & I cook & we are really enjoying each others company. Friday is her birthday & I invite my niece Sindi to join us for her birthday dinner @ Johnny Corrino's. Fantastic meal (order the Jalapeno Garlic Talapia...to die for). While having dinner, Sindi announces that she has free movie tickets to the Quail Springs Mall theater,(about 25 miles north of our area, however, they must be utilized by the next day.....did we want to go to a free movie? Of course we did! Maybe Vicki & Lauren would like to come along too.....'sure', says Sindi, 'I'll ask them to join us'.
We get home & I call Vicki & invite her & Lauren & she agrees to meet us there, 'but, Mother, we have already made plans to take Rileigh Shea swimming @Paula's pool. "Paula's pool"? You mean 'Paula, who was your bridesmaid when you married John? I didn't know you and Paula were still in touch' 'Oh ya, we still talk all the time' says vicki. 'OK, then we will just meet you @the movies' says I. 'OK, Mother, sounds like a plan'.
Saturday nite Sindi, Sandy, & I meet for dinner & are getting ready to head north to the theater. On the way there, Vicki calls Sindi & says John has already headed home & can we pick her & Lauren up @ Paula's Apt. Complex (a couple miles from the movie theater). OK, now I'm bitchin 'why didn't John just drop them off on his way home' yadda yadda yadda....'Tell Vicki to be outside the clubhouse, & we will pick them up there', I tell Sindi. Sindi's phone rings again & when she hangs up she says 'Paula wants to see you & say hello', so I respond 'oh, that's nice of her, let me put on some lipstick'. We pull into the parking lot, park, & out comes Vicki to greet us........'Oh, Vicki, I love your top' says I. 'Thanks Mom, she replies as we head for the Clubhouse. As we enter the building I see Brittany & Jeff with a video recorder & she is hollering 'Haaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyy' & I holler 'Haaayyyyyy' back, still not registering what is going on. I turn & look & see all these Martin's hollering something, AND THEN I SEE MY TWO TWIN NIECES from Texas...my brother eddie & his wife diane.................That is when I realized what was going on. I Just lost it @that point! I just broke down and bawled & bawled the UGLY CRY! When I got my senses controlled, I saw all my old friends & family around me! Doris & all her girls, Anthony Cable, Katy, It was wonderful. THEN, another surprise! I turned and looked @this person, and it took me a minute to figure out who he was...It was Skip Mc Casland, my first Apartment management boss from 1969! We had a great reunion!
Then came a wonderful video put together by Vicki, & Sindi's son Morgan. It was the best gathering ever. I have watched the video every day since then. At the end it says HAPPY BIRTHDAY. I told Vicki she could use the same vidio @my funeral..........just remove 'happy birthday' & replace it with 'Come Up & See Me Sometime !
My darling daughter just absolutely outdone herself, pulling off a Huge Surprise Birthday Party for me! It was an absolute surprise, and I bawled out loud when I realized what was going on. I was in 'total shock'!
A week or so earlier, my sister Sandy called & said 'I am thinking about coming to OKC, so we can celebrate our birthday's together'...I'm thinking it is a great idea....'come on over, it will be nice to spend time together'. (I have four sisters..we all have birthday's in July, except for one. Karel is 7/23, Sandy is 7/24, I am 7/27, & Barbara is 7/29. Pegge is in January.) So, Sandy arrives on Thursday & I cook & we are really enjoying each others company. Friday is her birthday & I invite my niece Sindi to join us for her birthday dinner @ Johnny Corrino's. Fantastic meal (order the Jalapeno Garlic Talapia...to die for). While having dinner, Sindi announces that she has free movie tickets to the Quail Springs Mall theater,(about 25 miles north of our area, however, they must be utilized by the next day.....did we want to go to a free movie? Of course we did! Maybe Vicki & Lauren would like to come along too.....'sure', says Sindi, 'I'll ask them to join us'.
We get home & I call Vicki & invite her & Lauren & she agrees to meet us there, 'but, Mother, we have already made plans to take Rileigh Shea swimming @Paula's pool. "Paula's pool"? You mean 'Paula, who was your bridesmaid when you married John? I didn't know you and Paula were still in touch' 'Oh ya, we still talk all the time' says vicki. 'OK, then we will just meet you @the movies' says I. 'OK, Mother, sounds like a plan'.
Saturday nite Sindi, Sandy, & I meet for dinner & are getting ready to head north to the theater. On the way there, Vicki calls Sindi & says John has already headed home & can we pick her & Lauren up @ Paula's Apt. Complex (a couple miles from the movie theater). OK, now I'm bitchin 'why didn't John just drop them off on his way home' yadda yadda yadda....'Tell Vicki to be outside the clubhouse, & we will pick them up there', I tell Sindi. Sindi's phone rings again & when she hangs up she says 'Paula wants to see you & say hello', so I respond 'oh, that's nice of her, let me put on some lipstick'. We pull into the parking lot, park, & out comes Vicki to greet us........'Oh, Vicki, I love your top' says I. 'Thanks Mom, she replies as we head for the Clubhouse. As we enter the building I see Brittany & Jeff with a video recorder & she is hollering 'Haaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyy' & I holler 'Haaayyyyyy' back, still not registering what is going on. I turn & look & see all these Martin's hollering something, AND THEN I SEE MY TWO TWIN NIECES from Texas...my brother eddie & his wife diane.................That is when I realized what was going on. I Just lost it @that point! I just broke down and bawled & bawled the UGLY CRY! When I got my senses controlled, I saw all my old friends & family around me! Doris & all her girls, Anthony Cable, Katy, It was wonderful. THEN, another surprise! I turned and looked @this person, and it took me a minute to figure out who he was...It was Skip Mc Casland, my first Apartment management boss from 1969! We had a great reunion!
Then came a wonderful video put together by Vicki, & Sindi's son Morgan. It was the best gathering ever. I have watched the video every day since then. At the end it says HAPPY BIRTHDAY. I told Vicki she could use the same vidio @my funeral..........just remove 'happy birthday' & replace it with 'Come Up & See Me Sometime !
Sunday, July 19, 2009
Pray for Gerald
A couple of days ago, I went to pick up my ex-husband for an appointment @ the OU Physicians building. It was for a radiation therepy (urology). When I arrived @his home, it was an awful awakening on my part. He was totatly naked, & took him about 10 minutes to open the door. I was in shock to see how much weight he had lost in the past week, let alone how his body looked like a skeleton. I knew he had lost a lot of weight, but never expected to see what I saw. I just cried. I had been seeing him every week for months, but had not seen him naked in a couple years. He could barely walk on this day. It was absoulty astounding, and I can not remove the vision from my mind. He is in the VA hospital as I write, and I think he will never leave there this time. He has several liesions on his lungs, sore to touch (his entire body), and is terminal. Depending on the type & strength of pain medication, he still has his sound mind.
I fell madly in love with this man in 1958, and thru all our trials and tribulatons, I have a love for him still. .........
I fell madly in love with this man in 1958, and thru all our trials and tribulatons, I have a love for him still. .........
Thursday, July 16, 2009
ADDRESS BOOK FOUND
I arrived back from South Dakota more than a couple of weeks ago. A few days ago (like a week or so), I decided to call someone....looked for my address book, to no avail.
Where in the hell is my address book? I looked & looked. I had remembered seeing it after our trip, OR, did I? Is Alzheimer's creeping in? NO, surely not! I checked out every place possible place that Miss Rileigh Shea could have possibly put it. Finally, yesterday, I showed her a piece of luggage that had the same design. 'Rileigh, see this luggage, it has a map on it Did you take my 'book' with a map & hide it? No, Taotao, I don't take your book'.......okay, so, never mind. Yesterday she comes into my office with a Rand McNally Atlas.........'Taotao, here is your map book'..........now, how smart is that!? Finally, I alerted my sister in South Dakota...did I leave it there? I alerted my niece that drove us to South Dakota, did I leave it in her van?....Nope & Nope. Today Lauren came down for a visit. I had made some 'peanut butter candy balls', and she picked up a couple, dropping one behind the couch cushion. 'Lauren, get that candy you dropped, it will cause ants', I screamed! 'Don't worry, taotao, I'm getting it'...........Low & Behold, she pulled out 'MY ADDRESS BOOK!...........see!
Where in the hell is my address book? I looked & looked. I had remembered seeing it after our trip, OR, did I? Is Alzheimer's creeping in? NO, surely not! I checked out every place possible place that Miss Rileigh Shea could have possibly put it. Finally, yesterday, I showed her a piece of luggage that had the same design. 'Rileigh, see this luggage, it has a map on it Did you take my 'book' with a map & hide it? No, Taotao, I don't take your book'.......okay, so, never mind. Yesterday she comes into my office with a Rand McNally Atlas.........'Taotao, here is your map book'..........now, how smart is that!? Finally, I alerted my sister in South Dakota...did I leave it there? I alerted my niece that drove us to South Dakota, did I leave it in her van?....Nope & Nope. Today Lauren came down for a visit. I had made some 'peanut butter candy balls', and she picked up a couple, dropping one behind the couch cushion. 'Lauren, get that candy you dropped, it will cause ants', I screamed! 'Don't worry, taotao, I'm getting it'...........Low & Behold, she pulled out 'MY ADDRESS BOOK!...........see!
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
REVERSED MORTGAGE, OR NOT?
About a week or so ago, I was thinking about doing a 'reversed mortgage' on my home. It could really put a lot of cash in my much needed pocket. I contacted two or three reverse mortgage companies, and, Oh My God, they're mostly worse than used car salesmen! I was BOMBARDED all week, well, this is Wednesday, but I was overwhelmed with calls solidly for the past three days! Some were nice & professional, some pushy, & some absolute dicks! I have committed to a company with whom I feel comfortable. I am feeling positive about my decision. Maybe now I will travel more, or not. Maybe I'll just fill my propane tank and 'chill'. Nice to have an option.
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